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Dirt Never Hurts!

by Kathy T.

I am a huge proponent of letting kids get outside, play in the dirt, and make a mess. That’s what I did when I was a kid, and I had an awesome childhood. I’d make forts under trees, explored the woods around my grandparents’ house, and went to Girl Scout camp at least twice a year. One time when I was really young, my cousin and I had a contest to see who could get more dirt on them. I had a blast, plus playing in the dirt actually boosts your immune system! For more reasons why you should let your kids get messy, read this article by Rachel at A Mother Far From Home:

-Sensory satisfaction- Young kids need LOTS of sensory input. Playing with water, dirt, mud, and going swimming can entertain them for hours.

-It’s not permanent- throw them in the tub and wash their clothes- the stains are temporary, the memories are not.

-It’s better than screentime- always put outside time before screen time.

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“Cheat Sheets” For New Parents

by Kathy T.

3580638847_8f53f93590_zRemember when you were in school, and sometimes a teachers would be merciful and let you use an index card “cheat sheet” on a test? Why don’t they have those for real life? For doing your taxes, or auto maintenance, or raising kids? Well, good news- at least for the last one. This post by Jennifer Fishkind at Princess Pinky Girl has rounded up the best “parenting cheat sheets” on the internet. Check it out, and you will have a handy guide for:

-How many diapers you will need per day

-Diaper contents and baby health

-Baby sign language

-Baby Physical Development

-Appropriate chores by child age

-Baby feeding charts, when to move on to solid food, etc.

-Baby sleep guidelines

It’s super useful! Every new or expecting parent should bookmark that post immediately.

Photo Credit: Terrance Nance 

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What To Bring To The Beach With Toddlers

by Kathy T.

14106263299_7dd041db3d_zMy two-year-old nephew went to the beach for the first time last week! He had a blast, but was more interested in playing with sand and rocks than the ocean. Still, he had a great time! If you are taking your toddler to the beach soon, make sure you’re properly prepared with the right items. To keep your toddler happy and safe, check out this packing list by Katie M. Mclaughlin at Pick Any Two:

-2 bathing suits

-Sun hat with wide brim

-Kid-friendly sunscreen

-Snacks

-Sand toys

-Hand sanitizer

-Towel, blanket

-Umbrella

Photo Credit: Melissa Hillier 

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Nighttime Games For Kids

by Kathy T.

8143045055_4effe97295_zIt’s Spring Break where I live, so all the kids are out of school. Some of them are on vacation at the beach, some are out camping, and some are just enjoying a week off at home. If your kids are home, one way to make their break memorable is by getting outside and MAKING some memories! You could try backyard camping, heading to a park/playground, or playing some of these awesome outdoor flashlight games by Holly at the Kids Activities Blog:

Flashlight hide-and-seek – The person who is “it” is the one with the flashlight making it more challenging to find a good hiding place!

Flashlight freeze – Get silly and work out the wiggles by dancing and moving until the flashlight beam hits which is the signal to freeze!  Those who move in the light are out!

Flashlight puppet show – Shadow puppets are always popular and you can set up a light stage with a simple flashlight and a smooth surface.

Photo Credit: Vladimir Megan

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Helping Your Kids Through A Move

by Kathy T.

6974914188_06be3d503f_zWhen I was in middle school, my family moved to another state, and the first year there was honestly the worst one of my life (I know, I’m lucky to have such minor problems). I was at a new school with no friends and was super shy (and super mad at my parents). Of course, I eventually started talking to people and I love my state now, but it was one of the roughest times for me and my parents. If you are moving and you have kids, it’s not going to be a walk in the park. Some kids handle it better than others (younger ones do better than middle or high school aged kids), but you still have your work cut out for you. Check out these tips by Kristi at A Mom With A Lesson Plan for how to help your kids through a tough move and to keep your own sanity:

-Focus on a familiar routine and follow it strictly, it will help them feel like they are still in control of something

-Tell them about the move as soon as possible so they have more time to adjust

-Talk to them about their fears, and what they will be sad to leave behind. Talk to them about what they have to look forward to!

-Let them visit the new town and house a few times before you move there

These are great tips! I have some of my own as well:

-Do NOT move during the school year unless you absolutely can’t help it.

-Find a way to get them involved in the new community. Find an activity they like and get them into it! Look into local Girl / Boy Scout troops, sports teams, reading programs, and other organizations. It will help them make their first friends.

-Be ready for anger and tears, especially if your kids are older. Just know that they WILL get through it, and that you are not a bad parent.

Photo Credit: Martin Garrido 

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Springtime Fun: Camping With Kids

by Kathy T.

7299820870_e78782c078_zCamping is usually thought of as a summer activity, but I live in the South, and NO one wants to be stuck in a 98 degree tent for a night. Especially kids. That’s why I usually go camping in the springtime, or during Fall. It’s super fun, and usually fairly cheap (if not free). Campsites in my area usually charge less than $11 a night for a tent site, and you can usually find “primitive” spots for free. Of course, there is also your backyard! The possibilities are endless, and kids love cooking s’mores, making camp crafts, hiking, and enjoying nature. Check out this post by Amanda at The Dating Divas for a huge list of over 100 camping ideas for kids. Here are some of my favorites:

Banana Boats recipe

 Campfire Monkey Bread recipe

 Flashlight Tag game

Capture the Flag

Camping Songs for Kids

Pony Bead Lizard Craft Tutorial

Tin Can Lanterns Craft

Photo Credit: Arup Malakar 

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What To Teach Your Child: Essential Skills

by Kathy T.

3097036338_cc22681cb2_zSchools are essential to a child’s mental and social development, but there are many things that kids need to know that simply aren’t taught at school. Life skills are the responsibility of the parent. Being able to write a convincing essay, read a classic book, and solve an algebra problem are fantastic- but what good is that if you can’t take care of yourself and survive in the real world? For skills that YOU need to teach your child, read this list by Chetana at Mom Junction:

-Cooking

-Wilderness survival skills (building a fire, making a shelter, etc.)

-First aid

-Gardening basics

-Swimming

-Money management

-Cleaning/laundry/household repairs

Photo Credit: Emran Kassim 

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Are You A Good Mom?

by Kathy T.

9387841254_b21b1deb48_oI know that every mom struggles with this question. Heck, every parent is constantly worried that they are not good enough and are screwing up their child. I’m here to tell you that if you are worried about it, then your kid will be fine. If you worry enough to care about how they turn out, you are doing a good job. If they are happy, healthy, warm, and have a roof over their head and food in their bellies, and a parent who loves them, they have all they need. It’s okay to feel overwhelmed. It’s okay that you sometimes lose your temper and yell. It’s okay if all you did today was keep the kids alive and not a single thing else. It’s okay. If you are still wondering if you’re doing a good job as a mom, read this article by Danielle at Today’s The Best Day. It seriously made me tear up a little:

-A good mom has bad days

-A good mom has good days

-A good mom encourages and supports

-A good mom knows how to laugh

Seriously. If you put the work in, if you are always there for your kids, and put everything else above them, you are doing a great job.

Photo Credit: cambodia4kids.org Beth Kanter 

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Before The Baby: Conversations Parents Should Have

by Kathy T.

Before you decide to have a child with someone, it’s important that you both agree on some fundamental issues. Sure, you and your partner don’t have to share all the same beliefs and ideals, but you should be able to agree on how to raise your kid. Check out this post by Michele Zipp at The Stir for conversations that you and your partner absolutely need to have before the baby arrives:

-How you want to birth- hospital or in home?

-Baby name choice- find something you both love

-Potential complications- what will you do if your child has special needs, etc. ?

-Money

-Discipline methods

Photo Credit: Pedro Ribeiro Simoes 

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Skills Every Teen Should Have Before Moving Out

by Kathy T.

I am a strong believer in the value of education, and I think it’s extremely important to making you a well rounded person. I want my kids to learn everything they possibly can: how to read classic literature, how to logically work through a complicated math problem, how to come up with a scientific experiment to test an idea- I love everything that schools do for kids. However, there are some things that schools simply don’t teach: life skills like cooking, car and home maintenance, child care, budgeting, cleaning, and job skills that most people do on a daily basis. It’s not a school’s responsibility to teach kids how to survive as adults- it’s ours. So, if you have a teenager who is almost done with school and ready to move out on their own, make sure they know how to do all the things on this list by Susan Merill at Imom:

-Basic cooking skills

-Budgeting and money management skills

-Personal healthcare knowledge

-Auto and domestic maintenance skills

-Work skills, basic responsibility, and manners

Photo Credit: Moyan Brenn 

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