If you’ve always wanted to adopt, and longed to have a child of your own no matter what the costs, you probably don’t care about the drawbacks. Also, this post is not intended to dissuade anyone from adopting a toddler- it’s a lifechanging, incredible experience. Rather, it’s so prospective parents know exactly what they’re getting into, especially when adopting a child that’s already 2 or 3 years old. This post by Carly at Africa to America is a pretty good guide. Be sure to click through to the entire post to read her story:
-You get to be there for a lot of “firsts” with a younger child
-Attachment may come more naturally with a smaller child
-Toddlers are super cute!
-…But they are EXHAUSTING, both mentally and physically.
-Toddlers have most likely spent their early years in an orphanage, foster care, or a traumatic home. Be prepared for their emotional needs when dealing with this.