One of the most important parts of bonding as a family is having dinner together, at a table, distraction free, every night. In fact, the reason I think I am so close to my family is because my parents stuck to that principle so hard. I don’t remember ever experiencing awkward, silent dinners; there were never any lulls in conversation. Probably because we’re all so talkative! However, if you have a more reserved family, or you’re just now trying out eating together, it may be a little awkward. What do you talk about, beyond “How was your day?” For some family dinner conversation starters, check out this post by Natalie Wright at Organized Mom (she suggests throwing them in a jar, pulling one question out per meal, and discussing it):
-What did you do today that you are proud of?
-What did you dream about last night?
-What makes you happy when you’re sad?
-What is your favorite book?
-What is your favorite thing about the person next to you?
My personal favorite? This: Tell us something new that you learned today!
It lets kids review things from school, and lets all family members learn from each other.