How do you tell your kids about the loss of a job for one of the major household bread winners? This predicament is becoming more common as parents are laid off with jobs being transferred to India, factory closings, and other business reductions due to the still unsteady economy.
For young children, perhaps nothing needs to be said other than, “Play time!”
As children get older, it’s important not to transfer your stress to them – to allow them to be children even when money is tight. You can explain that although the parent no longer works at a certain place, they will be looking for a job somewhere else and with prayers, patience, and perhaps some sacrifice (no more splurge buys at the local discount store) everything will be okay.
Teenage children are another story entirely. Be honest with them. Let them know – like with kids a bit younger – that the parent will continue to look for another job. But ask for their help. See if they can come up with ideas to help cut expenses or save money.
You might be surprised at their creativity and at what they’re willing to give up to help the family.
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